(Cal 1798-After 1851)
Likely this one - Calk is v close to Strood (Stroud as on the 1851 is another spelling of Stroud)
She resided as Wife of Deskford Gray Accountant in 1851 in Upshire Hamlet, Waltham Abbey, Essex. 3 (with daughter Helen and servant Emma Morgan)
Mary married Deskford Gray, son of Alexander Gray and Mary Grant, on 8 Apr 1828 in Saint Martin In The Fields, Westminster, London.1 (Deskford Gray was christened on 20 Oct 1801 in Cullen, Banff, Scotland 4 and died in Dec 1857 in London City (reg) 5.)
The Church of Latter Day Saints, International Genealogical Index, www.familysearch.org/, DESKFORD GRAY
Spouse: MARY COLYER Family
Marriage: 08 APR 1828 Saint Martin In The Fields, Westminster, London, England
Messages: Extracted marriage record for locality listed in the record.
2 Ancestry.com Online Census and BMD, www.ancestry.com, 1841C, 1851C.
3 Ancestry.com Online Census and BMD, www.ancestry.com, 1851C.
4 Scotland's People - Index, www.scotlandspeople.gov.uk, 20/10/1801 GRAY DESKFORD ALEXR. GRAY/MARY GRANT FR263 M Ordiquihill /BANFF 163/ 0010 0251.
FreeBMD Online Index of BMD, England & Wales, www.freebmd.org.uk, Death. Deaths Dec 1857
Gray Des_1,2ford London City 1c 76.